Believe it or not giving up sugar is more than just deciding one day, I’m going to quit sugar! (If only it were that simple!) Unfortunately for many people including myself eating sugary/sweet foods goes far beyond just putting it in our mouth.
Mind sets are developed over periods of time often years. They usually develop from our past experiences, or those things that others have said you us. Mind sets are tough to break, I speak from experience. I certainly had to dig deep to break some of the mind sets which had developed within me over the years. However they are not impossible to break, and once you break that mind set the experience can be liberating. So I know this is the bit where everyone says how do I change my mind set. The truth is, I wish I knew. There is no one straight answer, and everyone of us will have a different one!
For quitting sugar my mind set, and motivation were I didn’t want to be the FATTEST bridesmaid at my brothers wedding!! I had 6 months to shift some serious pounds, and the cheapest , and hopefully most effective way I could do it was to quit sugar. However I realise not everyone will have a wedding to motivate them. At the moment I am in the process of facing some other challenges, that have highlighted some mental blocks I have. This has in turn led me to think how can I change my mind set, how can I break through the massive big road block that is in my way, and achieve what I want too!! This is requiring some serious thinking on my part!! I realise that I am the only one that can change this, but how do I do this??!! I want the end result, but the work in between seems impossible.
Many of you will know I have signed up to do a walking marathon in London, in September to raise money for the Stroke Association in memory of my late grandmother. I have always wanted to do a marathon, I want to do this in memory of my gran, and I want the feeling of the end result. I even enjoy walking. BUT I have a mental block to it! I’ve been contemplating this mental block, and realise part of the block has come from all these long held beliefs I have , that have developed over many years. Beliefs that have stemmed from comments from others , or negative past experiences. In that they have created the mind set that is stopping me, or blocking me from achieving that goal. Crazy isn’t it that all those things are controlling me, and have power over me all these years later. Yet , they have all snowballed together to create this massive big crater blocking me from achieving my goal. My dad who used to tell me I was useless, and cackhanded when I couldn’t catch a ball properly. My sports teacher who hounded , and bullied me in sports lessons. Being forced to do cross country when I had undiagnosed health issues, on cold winter mornings, and pretty much coming last. Being laughed at and sneered at by others. Having that friend that was sportier , and more attractive than me. Being sneered at by an ex for my general lack of confidence. Well you get the picture, I am sure many of you have had mind sets developed from your own similar experiences.
But the truth is we are allowing all these things to hold power over us often many years later! I know I am !! Even writing like this I am thinking, why on earth am I letting all these people, and experiences have control, and power over me. I should be walking every mile of that marathon taking control back, from all those that have contributed to my negative mind set. I had a counsellor once that said to me if someone asked you to carry their shopping bags would you, if you were still holding yours. Well probably not! So my thought for you would be if all those that had contributed to your negative mind set, and experiences asked you to carry all their very heavy shopping bags, whilst you were still carrying your own, would you?!
So everyone as I set about breaking my negative mind set, in the hope of crossing the finish line after my marathon on the 23rd September, I encourage you to give everyone their shopping bags back, and making yours a bit lighter, by getting rid of some of your negatives. Good luck everyone.
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